December 7, 1941- One of those days that you don't forget. For the historically challenged, it is the anniversary of the attack on Pearl Harbor and the destruction that led President Roosevelt to refer to it as "a date which will live in infamy."

November 22, 1963- a young President's life is ended as he is declared dead at Parkland Hospital in Dallas.

It is particularly disturbing that these are all dates connected with death and destruction. However, to me and others they shall only standout as minor icons of twisted ideas that have manifested badly. The reality is that they are insignificant in the face of of all the good and beneficial work that is done by millions of people around the world, people of all cultures, all faiths and all backgrounds. The reality is, every day is an important date whether it be a mediator trying to settle a dispute, a person dealing with care for an ailing friend or relative or just the love of a mother looking after her family. Next time something traumatic happens somewhere, remember, these are the exceptions to the wonderful and caring acts of every day life.

Even in Dallas and Honolulu, memories are made every day.

For now,

Bryce Jeffery